A legacy letter from a daughter, for the daughters coming after
#40Series | My Life As Favour
In Loving Memory of My Mother
August 26, 2024 ✝️
She suffered in silence, stood in faith, and left behind more than memories , she left a legacy.
This is a part of her truth, told not in bitterness but in boldness. For me. For you. For every daughter who needs to know better, choose better, and live freer.
She made one mistake.
Just one.
But it cost her decades of pain.
It wasn’t just heartache, it was emotional, psychological, and physical abuse.
Not just from the man she married… but from the family she married into.
Even after he passed, the wounds didn’t heal.
The scheming continued.
The slander grew darker, and the lies found new lips.
There was one , one woman in particular , her sister in law, driven by something evil, something manipulative,
something that wore the mask of family but had the hands of Jezebel.
She orchestrated pain.
She sowed discord.
She attacked the truth my mother carried.
But hear me clearly:
My mother never cursed them.
She never retaliated in the flesh.
She handed judgment to God and never took it back.
And the day of reckoning will come.
Because our God sees. And He is just.
To the young woman in her 20s dreaming of marriage… please, read slowly:
Marriage is not just a celebration.
It’s not just about pictures, romance, or prayer partners.
It’s a spiritual merger.
It’s legacy. It’s parenting. It’s warfare and covering.
If you desire marriage, then the man you choose and the family you marry into ,will shape your future in ways you can’t yet imagine.
Choose wrong, and you may not just lose years & life…You may raise children who have to unlearn pain you never meant to pass on.( I am that child)
Don’t let desperation lead you to destruction, don’t let emotions either lead you to a mess.
Let me leave you with this:
The devil has no heart, but you do.
Protect it. Guard it jealously.
Not with fear, but with discernment and prayer.
You’re not just choosing a man.
You’re choosing the spirit over your home.
The father your kids will live with.
The soil your purpose will try to grow in.
Choose wisely.
Let her scars, my mother’s scars , and mine speak so you don’t have to collect your own.
One day, I’ll write it all.
The full truth, for my children and you
But today… this piece is enough to save someone’s future.
With truth and tenderness,
Doris/mylifeasfavour
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